Thought Catalog: the 4 Ls I Live By

Posted June 3, 2014 by jimhigley


I’m proud to be a featured Parenting Contributor on Thought Catalog. If you haven’t heard of Thought Catalog, it’s “one part diary, one part humor, one part intellectual musings, one part sentimentalism, one part pop culture, one part experimentalism. It is a mixed bag of content from many different voices, from writers who have been published by the likes of Slate, The New York Times, The Paris Review…”

I’m happy to be part of the Thought Catalog family. And I hope you enjoy some of my work there

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To those of you who still have cute, little kids who think you’re the greatest thing since their pacifier, I bring bad news:

Those kids are going to turn on you someday. Some will stop talking. Others will only grunt. And some will think that you are the root of all things bad in their life. This is one of the most painful parts of parenting. It usually happens during the tweens or teens. Or both. In my 24 years of parenting, it’s one of the deepest valleys I’ve known.

The good news is that much of it can be softened, if not avoided. But you’re going to have to work at it — just like you do with every other important relationship in your life. Start by trying these four tips: (READ MORE…)

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